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SELF ESTEEM

Feeling she lost her values and her pride,she sat down in front of her friends with hurt so mighty but she refused to cry, she stood in front of the mirror trying to rise but she could hardly rise,her strength failed her and she tried one more time all her wings so high were down so low she could barely see them. The issues of self esteem has been on and on since ages.Self esteem is a person opinion about oneself. Teenagers are people still growing who has had little or no experience about life,they want to be praised not rebuked,corrected not scolded,directed not followed,persuaded not forced. But most parents fail to understand this but self esteem plays a very important role in raising a child, when too high it breeds pride when too low it breeds inferiority complex(a feeling that one is not good enough)and thus has everything to do with the parents. The words you throw at your children would either bring a positive or negative self esteem and they would act that way. What is your response to your children's failure? do you motivate them or you compare them with others. When they do a good deed do you let it slide or you commend them and encourage them? the words used on children has a way of forming them morally,their view about life changes and their actions portrays your words.if you use negative words they get the negative signal they start feeling lonely, sad and not loved by you because most times no matter how they try to please they end up getting scolded. Soon they leave home the root of love to go look for love outside facing the world feeling worthless, having nothing to show but hurt. Being unsure of their selves they start begging to be loved, giving too much,trying to buy love, staying where no one wants them because they feel even giving their all is never enough to be enough. They lose their will to rise and their pride they try to stand again but can't because the people who brought them here,the people who the teens need most(parents) are the people that hurt with words that break us. Parents try listening to the silent voices of your children, appreciate and love them,be their friend so they can't talk to you. There's no greater bond that that of family,respect your children unique personality and let them know they are worth all good things. Do not let them fall into the hands of people who won't love them enough.love your child so much that no other love can be compared to it,do not use negative words on them rather motivate them always.help them to love themselves show them the way that they won't depart from. Save a teenager today. Thanks for reading.
Emmanuel

Emmanuel

20 comments:

  1. This is the situation that I once found myself in but hopefully I was able to get out of it with the help of mentors. God bless you for this writeup may your ink never run dry

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  2. Growing up as a child, when am praised by my parents, it raises my mind to what i can do. that encourages me and as i grow, it helps my self esteem to be balanced knowing very well that if i could do it then, i can also do it now.

    parents should always learn to encourage their kids; that will boost their morales

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  3. Self esteem really goes a long way in a child's life, praising them when they deserve it helps them wonna do more just to get their due praises.
    Remember when I could not stay in the midst of girls just because I believe am not worth them but thanks God I changed my mentality with helps of friends and parent...
    Nice writeup man stay blessed

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  4. Good story. Something to think about.

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  5. Good read, really makes you think.
    I think social media is a massive part of peoples self esteem now, it's embedded into our lifes at this point!

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  6. With today's online obsessions, I think it can be easy for self esteem to drop, so I agree that it's vital for parents to instil it in their children!

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    1. You're right. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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  7. I agree with this. Children, especially young ones need extra love and attention and I think it should come from both parents.

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    1. Exactly...

      I will visit your site to read articles ♥.

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  8. Oh I completely agree. Self esteem issues is a major issue. I suffered as a child and a teenager and it's one thing that I hope my own children don't suffer from.

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    1. Aww.... sorry about that... To avoid that you have to show your children love and care. Thanks ♡.

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