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THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP:HONOR

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Greek translation: Tlųń- timi
Noun: price, value, cost, honor, rate, fare
Verb: honor, price, dignity, revere, grace
DEFINITION:


As a noun: high respect, esteem
As a verb: regard with great respect

Every kind of relationship be it professional, family, dating, marriage and so on thrive on honor. They become unproductive and full of resentment if there is no mutual regard among the parties involved. From the definition above it can be deduced that honor involves holding each other in high respect in other words honor is a major factor for the successful progression of every kind of relationship. You cant love whom you dont honor.
A boss who treats his employers with disrespect or dishonor shouldnt expect loyalty or maximum results from his employees. A spouse that takes the other party as less important and shows disregard at every turn should not expect honor or love because you get as much as you give. Same goes for every kind and form of relationship. If you look at cause of rift and lukewarmness in relationships you will realise that at some point either over familiarity or other factors that still stems from the fact that honor is gradually becoming non existent in the relationship is on its rise.
Honor defies every form of selfish motive because the other person is placed first and when this is mutual the result is great foundation for productivity on all grounds.



BENEFITS OF HONOR

A: PEACE:

peace reigns optimally. What a great relief it is when there is peace! If on top of everything there is going on there is no peace, life becomes hell and unproductive.


B:GREAT FOUNDATION FOR LOVE:

the fastest way to fall out of love with people is to make them feel small, unimportant, irrelevant and totally invisible. Every human yearns for love whether they chose to admit it or not because we are made from and for love. So you cant love what you disregard. Honor creates a foundation for love to exist and thrive.


C: BLESSINGS:

Honor opens doors faster than you can imagine even creates opportunities that even bribes cant create. There have been opportunities where simple respect for a hired labor or lowest ranked staff have made a difference in being promoted. You dont know who has being placed at your point of blessing and most people miss their opportunities because of disregard for the smallest things forgetting that most big things are cloaked in the small ones.
Simple act of kindness jumps protocols even when you are oblivious of them. Its shocking well not completely shocking considering human nature how people relegate others to unimportant and and non existent because of their level on the societal strata forgetting that people are your keys to the next level.
Honor makes a difference. We should always make it a point of duty to always accord respect to whomsoever no matter the background, culture, skin colour, race, genetic make up and so on. So let honor come first in our relationships.

VICTORIA UKPAKA

VICTORIA UKPAKA

human physiologist. writer (poetry, fiction, essay). motivational speaker. blogger. resource personnel.

2 comments:

  1. ilove this article, if only people can key into the word "honour" then we all be happy.

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